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Dasher in his prime


A year or so after we adopted Buddha, we randomly received a call from a cat rescue org we worked with: “You have an FIV+ cat, right? Would you be willing to adopt another one? He’s the next in line to be euthanized at the shelter where he is, and they’ve put it off so many times because everybody there loves him so much, but they just can’t keep doing that. I think he’s a himalayan, too…”


Well, for the record, Dasher was not a himalayan. What he was, was an energetic, curious clown with impulse control issues but an amazing capacity for love. From “romping around on the newly-changed sheets” (his favorite game) to “eat ALL the food” (his other favorite game) to “claim Laurie’s lap FOREVERRR” (his other other favorite game), Dasher brought light, energy, profound goofiness, and occasional yelling to our lives every day.


A year or two ago he was diagnosed with kidney disease, so we started him on a regimen of fluid injections three times a week. Unfortunately, that wrecked his heart (kidney problems and heart problems are each treated in ways that exacerbate the other, unfortunately). This past summer, he had an episode of congestive heart failure (basically, his heart was full of fluids that weren’t supposed to be there). To treat that we took him off the fluids and started a regimen of pills/diet to treat his heart and be as easy on his kidneys as possible, but we knew then that it was only a matter of time.


And so for the past six months, we have tried to treat every day with Dasher as a gift from the Universe, a little extra time… even more than the twelve extra years he’d already had from his rescue from the shelter. But yesterday, his breathing was rapid and labored. We took him to the Hope Center, where the vet basically confirmed the worst: it was a second round of congestive heart failure, and while it would be possible to keep him alive, he might very well be on oxygen for the remainder of his life and the muscle atrophy and other problems he’d been suffering for the past year would rapidly get worse.


Asking the vet to gently end his life was difficult and painful; even in the hospital, having trouble breathing, he was vital and curious and loving. Just being alive made Dasher happy, even with a blind eye, all of his teeth rotted away from FIV, a grape-sized lump growing under the skin on the side of his head, and everything else. If there was some way to keep his body as alive as his spirit, we would have gladly jumped at it.


It’s been harder on Laurie—she was his favorite, and she held him closely until he was gone. But it hasn’t been easy on either of us.


Farewell, Dasher. We love you, and we’ll miss you. Thank you for spending your time with us, and all you taught us. We’ll see you again.


Don’t harass Buddha in the afterlife, okay? He’ll kick your spectral ass.

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Lake Anne, Reston
Source: ModernReston.com


Solarpunk – a plausible near-future sci-fi genre, [...] based on updated Art Nouveau, Victorian, and Edwardian aesthetics, combined with a green and renewable energy movement to create a world in which children grow up being taught about building electronic tech as well as food gardening and other skills, and people have come back around to appreciating artisans and craftspeople, from stonemasons and smithies, to dress makers and jewelers, and everyone in between. -Olivia.


The house is starting to take shape, although [personal profile] laurie_robey and I seriously need some downtime to just come together and work on it, as she's been doing most of the organizing herself by virtue of actually being here. The B&N job, while it has its virtues, has been an enormous time/energy sink, and I suspect it will not last once I get into training. It doesn't make that much more than commissions + book sales, but has made those harder to get done in a timely way.

Being back in Virginia is definitely a relief, and we've made a point of getting some walking around the neighborhood in. The neighbors we've met are all very nice and there's a good sense of community here, which pleases me. And of course, Reston was solarpunk before there was solarpunk, despite every developer in the world trying to turn it into another Crystal City for the past fifty years.

Fuck off, developers. :P Nobody likes you.

The cats have been loving the new place, once they got over the stress of moving. The wide open living room gives them lots of room to tear around when they play, and Dasher particularly loves to Tokyo Drift all around the hardwood floors. (He very clearly does it on purpose when he's happy and excited– when all he wants is to get from point A to point B he just takes the turn normally.) We're particularly happy to see Dasher being energetic and having fun, as he is starting to show his age. He's not processing vitamin B12 properly, so we have to give him a weekly injection of that, and he'll be off to the vet later today for a heart checkup. Given everything he's been through, he's still doing very well.

Also today I have a call with someone from the life coach training organization I'm interested in. I already spoke to one person there, an alumnus who I made contact with through my counselor and who has a very successful practice as well as still working with the training group. The person I'm speaking to today is actually one of her trainers, and I intend to get into a bit more detail about the nitty gritty of the actual program. (Hours, schedule, tuition costs, etc.)

It sounds quite promising. The program is designed to give you hands-on experience fairly quickly and helps you set up your own practice, find clients and referrals, and so forth. Some people (such as my initial contact) stay with the program or create a hybrid career combining clients of their own with program clients, while others simply strike off on their own after completing the course. And since part of understanding what life coaching is all about is having a clients'-eye view of the process, you get the services of one of the instructors as a coach yourself while you go through it all. (Given that I have been more-or-less acting as my own life coach for the past few years, it'd be handy to offload that task onto someone else for a while– not unlike the lawyer not representing themselves. ;) )

Seriously tho, once I started examining the idea of coaching, the more I began to think it was a good fit for me. I've basically been doing it for some of my friends for years (or decades) just by instinct, but it would be good to actually know what I'm doing. ;) (It would also be good to have a profitable line of work again, without going back to the code mines. I don't think I could successfully be an I.T. guy any more even if I wanted to, which God knows I don't.) I suspect the hardest part of the business for me will be the actual entrepreneurial aspect– i.e., billing, accounting, all that jazz– and part of the training program is helping you get that all set up.

Besides creating this as a new career, I'm also thinking about ways I can use the skills to help out the fandom(s) I'm in. I'm looking at creating a "How To Successfully Human" panel to run at furry cons, for instance. Plus anything that makes me a better businessman can only help with selling books and running my tables at conventions. If 2018 goes as I intend, I shall be well on my towards making a better future for myself and the world. :)

-The Gneech
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Moving day was a success! 99.99% of stuff moved, in reasonable shape, and no injuries sustained (woot). We now get to look forward to a few weeks of wondering where the hell _________ got to, and why the heck is it in this box marked "hall closet" anyway? My desk is currently assembled just enough to hold my laptop, with drawing tablet and second monitor lurking quiescent and unconnected nearby.

The cats have responded to the move each according to their character: Dasher has explored every nook and cranny of the place, said, "Yup, it's mine," and is now sleeping peacefully in a chair. InkyGirl is having a much more difficult adjustment. I had to sit out with her last night and keep petting and encouraging her to get her to even eat her dinner, because every random creak, or every time [personal profile] laurie_robey would so much as cough in the other room, Inky's panic mode would kick in.

Fortunately, as the night went on, and notably once Laurie and I went to bed (which apparently signaled to InkyGirl that if the BIG cats were confident to sleep, she was probably fairly safe too), she became a little braver and explored some as well. By this morning, she was confident to walk around openly, brazenly marching across the open floor instead of hiding in the piles of boxes, but then we had to spoil it all by opening the front door to go get breakfast.

Sorry, InkyGirl. The dishes are all still in a box, probably marked "Office Curtains." But she'll be fine, with time. :)

Last night, as we headed out to get some dinner and pick up a new curtain rod for the bedroom, Laurie said, "It finally feels real. We're really moving back to Virginia. Until we were actually driving over here with the cats in the car, it was all very abstract." What I said, was, "The 'Unsuck Our Lives' project is starting to bear fruit!"

This place isn't perfect, of course... the kitchen is smaller than the bedroom closet for starters, and there are a lot of newbie do-it-yourselfer mistakes we can tell the landlord did in his renovation efforts. But we have lots of space, we're back in our old stomping grounds in a part of Reston we like, and next to my desk I have a full-length window looking out into our heavily-wooded back yard. We've got hardwood floors, decent internet, a Whole Foods in walking distance, a nice neighbor with Harry Potter stickers on her rear window and a goofy witch hat decoration in her yard. For the first time since leaving The Hobbit Hole, I feel really good about our home, and that's going to make it so much easier to use it as an office/home base for building new projects and a career on.

Life is good. :)

-The Gneech
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I don't know why, but for some reason [livejournal.com profile] lythandra and I cannot be involved with a move without somebody flinging themselves down a staircase. This time around it was apparently my turn, as this morning when I was coming down for breakfast, my right foot decided not to stop of the step I put it on[1] but to head on down to the bottom, without telling the rest of my body first. Thus most of my weight ended up crunching the toes of my left foot curled under.

Owie. -.-

At first I was pretty sure that I'd broken either my toe or the bones of my foot. After several minutes of ice and cursing, I finally came to the conclusion that my foot is not actually broken, but that the top of the foot had become hyperextended. It hurts like heck, but hopefully it should not be permanent damage.

So once again, I'm gimping around on a cane. But, being forced to sit down means that I have a compelling reason to draw today instead of unpacking, so yay, I guess?

In other updates, the dishwasher has been repaired and we finally got the visitor's pass for our car, so progress is being made. :) We still won't have cable/internet until next week at the earliest, so we're still on hotspots and paying through the nose for it even with "compensatory data" from Verizon. But we are ubergeeks, and as such, internet is easily as important as things like running water. I've been wanting to sign on to LotRO all week, but I don't dare burn up the bandwidth.

The cats are acclimating well, although Inkygirl is terrified of the ceiling fans, much to our consternation. Apparently, this is a fairly common phenomenon, although Dasher doesn't even to seem to notice they're there. But then again, Dasher came to us as the result of apparently thinking a moving car would be a fun thing to play with, so, he's not necessarily a good judge of what is or isn't dangerous.

So, we're trucking along. Could be better, but could also be much worse. We're all right. :)

-The Gneech

[1] I blame carpeting on the stairs. This is something I've railed against before.
the_gneech: (Mysterious Beard)
Today was defined largely by writing and work, with a brief but intense burst of Uno at the Rathbun house. Very productive, but I need to be careful and pace myself so my ticker don't go all wonky, especially as the pharmacy is having trouble with the heart meds refill. I need to call Virginia Heart on Monday and get a followup visit.

Three Good Things for Today


  1. Fun present in the mail from T.K. Dye. Thanks, buddy! :) I'll let you know how it turns out.

  2. Hanging with friends for a bit.

  3. Second draft is 6,000 words up from this point in the first draft, and I got to revisit my favorite scenes today.

  4. BONUS GOOD THING: Received tips for last week. :)

  5. DOUBLE BONUS GOOD THING: The kitties got some fresh catnip and were adorably goofy about it.




Three Goals For Tomorrow


  1. Check out the book Thomas sent me.

  2. Try to get at least one more scene written in the second draft.

  3. Relax in the evening, as I've got a long shift again. :P


That's all for tonight. G'nite world, and have an awesome tomorrow. :)

-The Gneech
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The fact that cats honor the laws of spacetime more in the breach than in the observance is old news. But what frankly astonishes me in regards to my own particular cats is that somehow, they poop out approximately double their own mass every four hours. Given that they are only given three ounces of food each in the morning and evening, this mass must come from somewhere.

It is therefore my theory that all that missing dark matter, presumably being sucked down black holes? Is actually reappearing in litterboxes across the universe.

It is, frankly, the only thing that makes sense.

-The Gneech
the_gneech: (Me Am Writing!)
Last week, after Buddha was so sick, we had him on medicines and everything was hunky-dory... except that two days later, suddenly Dasher was just as sick, in exactly the same way. O.o

Two days after that, so was InkyGirl. D:

So yesterday, Dash and Inks went to the vet. [livejournal.com profile] lythandra and I had been planning to go out of town today and tomorrow to visit her family, but that got canceled in favor of staying home and taking care of the cats.

The various vets' verdict was "Eh, sometimes cats get sick. Here's some meds to make them feel better, they should be fine in a few days." No indication of what caused it, no indication of how we can prevent it from happening again. Oy. But as long as the cats are okay (which they seem to be this morning at least) I won't complain too much.

I'm spending the unexpected time at home to keep churning away at comics. I'm currently working on pages for the first full week of July still, and that's only two weeks away. I am extremely dissatisfied with my own performance on this front-- how do I have the gall to ask people to support my work, if no matter how many hours I grind away at it, I don't produce anything?

I have been systematically cutting out distractions in order to try to fix this problem; I have limited my websurfing to being finished no later than 9:00 a.m. (or 10:00 a.m. on exercise days), severely restricted my #TwitterPonies time, and pretty much dropped all computer gaming to at night when I'm too tired to draw decently any more. Yesterday I still had close to a ten hour day and with it got as far as pencilled and inked one page.

On my next break between issues, I'm going to start doing speed exercises in an attempt to reduce my drawing time. I'm not sure what they will consist of exactly, but my best guess is simply writing up a handful of image concepts, then shouting "GO!" and trying to draw as many of them as I can in an hour or however long.

I hope it works; I can't be left constantly both exhausted and unsatisfied with the work, and expect it to continue. I have got to find a groove.

-The Gneech
the_gneech: (Alex Spaz)
[livejournal.com profile] lythandra: Dasher is looking at you like "What the hell is he doing?"

ME: I'm just singing "Ow, ow-ow-ow, ow ow ow ow, OW-OW!" to the tune of "Fanfare for the Common Man." As you do when your back hurts.

-The Gneech ("Ow.")
the_gneech: (Kero asleep)
Came home from 1-2 hr outing for mom care to find Dasher listless and low appetite, after having been troublemaker all day. Not obviously "unwell," but definitely not himself. Going to keep an eye on him, if still like this in a.m. will take him to the vet.

Would take up drinking if I could afford it. -.-

-TG
the_gneech: (seasonal 2013)
I came home sick at lunchtime; you wouldn't think I could find three positive things on a day like that, but I think I have managed to:

  1. I slept. A lot. And I intend to go sleep some more very shortly.

  2. I did a piece of art I'm well pleased with: http://the-gneech.deviantart.com/art/Tanya-s-Rover-Promo-Image-inks-357777871 ...It's not finished yet, but it will be soon. It also doubled as the design process for Tanya's car, killing two birds with one stone.

  3. Dasher's wound seems to be healing up well. :)


...that wasn't so hard. :) And I didn't even mention the beautifully sunny (if cold and windy) weather.

Anyhow, back to sleep for me! Gnite, world, and have an awesome tomorrow.

-The Gneech
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Earlier this week, Dasher got into a scrape with a neighborhood cat. Since Buddha and Dasher are both FIV+ (the feline equivalent of HIV+), we limit their time outside and try to keep them away from other cats at all times, to prevent them from spreading it-- but sometimes they get away from us, and that's what happened in this case.

Anyway, Dasher seemed unaffected immediately after the fight, with no visible wounds, but this morning [livejournal.com profile] lythandra noticed a large scab on his back right leg. Puncture wounds on a cat can be bad news as it is, and with Dasher being FIV+, we don't take chances. Fortunately, there's a good vet just five minutes away and they have Saturday hours, so we got an appointment and got him checked out.

Turns out, it was a good thing we did, because there was an abscess under the skin and it was well into the process of turning funky. The vet opened it up and cleaned it out, pumped the wound full of antibiotics, and gave us oral antibiotics to feed Dash for a week. He said the wound should heal completely by the time we were through those, and all should be well.

In Other News...


I have been in a disassociative funk all week-- by which I mean to say, I've been moody and cranky without having a specific something to be moody and cranky about, and it's manifested mostly by me retreating to computer games until the wee hours of the morning and being even more introverted than usual.

Granted, there are plenty of things to be moody about. I'm still grieving for Kerry, and that will be going for some time, I expect. I'm also quite stressed about dealing with "the Mom situation," not because of the inherent stressors of it, but because I'm dreading losing so much of my time to dealing with her house and the bajillion logistical challenges involved. I'm going to be losing months' worth of weekends to this, and so I've been frantically trying to avoid it as long as possible. But I won't be able to avoid it much longer.

So this morning I decided that it was time to stop squirming and get on with facing this stuff. After all, sitting around playing video games isn't really what I want to be doing either, it's just my escape mechanism. Granted, it's less onerous than the stuff I'm using it to avoid, but really is there any point in doing "some other thing" that's not what I want to do, rather than facing the real things I don't want to do and getting them done?

What I actually want to be spending my time on is my creative work, and I have managed to keep that going somewhat. I'm working on page 6 of the first issue of the new comic now, so except for last week, which was spent working on the Tanya Expressions sheet instead, I've drawn a page a week since I started. I'm actually kind of amazed by that, considering all the other things that have also been going on.

Unfortunately, unless I unexpectedly hit a two- or three-page-per-week hot streak, there's no way the first issue will be ready for AnthroCon, which was when I was hoping to debut it. Close-- it will miss by three or four pages at the most-- but just not doable with all of the legwork that also has to be done (such as covers, creating the website, and so forth).

So my current working plan is to have the 8-page "teaser issue" ready, along with flyers and the website for AC, with the actual comic to be released a month or two later. We shall see.

-The Gneech
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Two and two for the morning workout routine, huzzah. :)

Numbers hidden behind cut. )
Weight: 328 lbs

Ate a slice of bread w/ peanut butter before going in this time, which prevented the lightheadedness. I was pretty dang sore from Tuesday's routine going in, but able to function anyhow, and I added back in the Ab Crunch, which I forgot on Tuesday.

I also went ahead and signed up for Fitocracy, username "the_gneech" (shocker, eh?). I have no idea what to do with it yet, because I didn't have time to poke around. Still need to shower and dress-- but that cat's litterbox has to be emptied first. Sheesh, Dasher, what did you eat?

-The Gneech
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We're home! Flight only took off an hour and a half late due to a faulty generator needing to be replaced, but if we were going to have a delayed flight, this was the one to have it happen on. The food on the plane was shockingly good, considering.

Buddha was a bit skittish when we first came in, as if he wasn't quite convinced it was us ("Those other two guys weren't you, were they!"), but as soon as he realized it was indeed us he immediately became as bouncy as a kitten, which as you might imagine, is the most adorable thing ever. :) Now he's blissing out to some skritches, bouncing back and forth between [livejournal.com profile] lythandra and myself ("Your turn! Now your turn! Now back to you! YAY!").

It's nice to be missed. ^.^ And we're very happy to be home. In a little while we'll be off to pick up Dasher, and then it'll be back to normal life -- a refreshing change!

-The Gneech
the_gneech: (Boot to the Head)

Most cats have a “rake” reflex, i.e., if they have a grip on something, they’ll grab it with their forepaws and kick/scratch it quickly and repeatedly with their powerful hind legs. This is devastating to their prey and is one of their primary means of killing something they’ve caught (the other being to break its neck in their jaws).

Dasher, our big ol’ goofball of a redneck rescue cat, has a particularly strong raking reflex on a hair trigger. He usually takes this out on toys, but he’ll rake anything that gets near his belly … pillows, treats, the fleshy underside of your arm, you name it.

This can lead to trouble when he’s trying to groom his belly or back legs. All he has to do is get into the wrong position and Whap! he’s kicked himself in the head. When this happens, he has a tendency to stop and look around in bafflement, trying to figure out what hit him, then attempt to groom again. Whap! He then identifies the culprit as one of his back feet and attempts to bite the offender in frustration — which of course sets off the rake reflex again.

The net result of all this is that Dasher will sometimes sit for minutes at a time repeatedly kicking himself in the face as he attempts to bite his own feet off.

Man, there are so many other people I wish would do that…

-The Gneech

Originally published at gneech.com. You can comment here or there.

the_gneech: (It's a Lion)
Hello, Mr. and Mrs. America, and all you crazy outlanders who read this thing! It's time for some updates, in no particular order.

Comics


I have started actually drawing the new comic! It is indeed as challenging as I thought it would be, but on the other hand, I'm coming up with some stuff that I'm pretty pleased with, so that's all good. I've got a six page "teaser" story completely scripted, and I'm now plotting the first major story arc, which will probably encompass 2-3 issues. Lots of quirky charm, lots of adventure, lots of explosions. O.o Think Chitty Chitty Bang Bang meets Cowboy Bebop...

Still chugging away on the Suburban Jungle and NeverNever books. Childproof is still sitting at the printer, Attack of the War-Cats needs more art done, and I've started ransacking ancient CD-ROMs to recover high-def strips for No Predation Allowed. I'm weighing the merits of going back and relettering the early years of Suburban Jungle like I did for the NeverNever books to get rid of Comic Sans, since so many people seem to have such a hate on for it ... unfortunately, a lot of the layered versions of the older strips were lost in a hard drive crash, so I'd have to go back and do them all manually. So I can't decide if it's worth it or not. Must ponder.

Kittehs


Dasher continues to be his big, burly redneck self. Buddha, after his worrying internal conditions of a few months ago, is greatly improved! We've got him on prescription cat food (Who knew there was such a thing — and why the heck should you need a prescription for it?) that is not only helping his little kitty innards, but has also seriously cleared up his allergies. Buddha is running around, frisky and playful in a way we haven't seen before Dasher showed up, which as you can probably guess makes [livejournal.com profile] lythandra and I mighty happy.

Gaming


I can describe how gaming has been lately in two ways: gaming hasn't been, and there hasn't been any gaming. Between my re-obsession with my comics and [livejournal.com profile] sirfox's job eating him, we've managed to squeak in one session of Call of Cthulhu since ... er ... August? Something like that. However! That'll change this weekend, with a super-secret game that I expect will come out of the blue and blow my players' fragile minds — in a good way. If nothing else, it'll be ... unexpected.

Parents


Dad has been home and stayed home for a few weeks now, tooling around on his walker and doing all right. Mom is her usual self and taking care of him like a trooper.

Work


[livejournal.com profile] lythandra got a nice raise! Awesomesauce. :) I may or may not get one myself as well, I haven't heard yet, but even in a best-case scenario I don't foresee getting that kind of a bump. I don't really deserve one anyway, I need to buckle down here.

Birthday


It was good. :) Thanks to everyone who sent their felicitations! We're still working on the ice cream cake. ;)

In Summary


Overall, things are pretty good for me right now! And I think it's important to mention it when that's the case. So thanks for putting up with the unrelenting cheerfulness. ;)

-The Gneech
the_gneech: (Kero Power Tie)
I'll sink into a funk if I let this continue. Time to remind myself of some happily-rescued cats.





Mah kittehs. :)

-The Gneech
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We're home! The kitties are somewhat confused, but okay! Our hotel had a fire! Did I mention that bit?

Anyway, it was an interesting Dragon*Con, to say the least. More on that subject tomorrow. Meanwhile, it's good to be home with our beloved lil' moggies.

-TG
the_gneech: (Kero asleep)
...well! Apparently those "appetite enhancers" really work! It's been a long time since Buddha woke us up begging for food!

Poor Dasher's so confused he doesn't know what to do. He's never had so much food lying out and around that he just isn't hungry any more. He doesn't know what to make of it!

Yay, have some breakfast kitty! As for me, back to bed... *thud*

-TG
the_gneech: (Mad Red)
Trying out a post on the iPad from the comfy chair in the den. While theoretically this is "my" chair, in practice Dasher uses it more than I do, as I'm usually at my computer. Gonna try a little iBook/Kindle reading while I'm here, as well. This may open up a whole new world of sitting comfortably around the house for me!

-The Gneech
the_gneech: (Kero Power Tie)
Well, B & D were a little weirded out by the peculiar turns of life last night, but on the whole are doing well. Dasher has pain medicine we need to squirt into his mouth periodically, which is about as much fun as it sounds, but as long as he gets food he doesn't mind.

Buddha was a little clingy last night; I'm sure being at the vet was giving him flashbacks to unhappier days, and he wanted some comforting and reassurance that he wasn't going to be ditched. I don't know who it was who left Buddha behind, but their loss is our gain. I just wish it hadn't left him so traumatized.

On the upside, Dasher's breath is much better now!

-The Gneech

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